top of page
Why Regulation Matters More Than “Staying Positive”
So often, when people come to therapy, they tell me they just want to “feel better.” They’re tired of snapping at their partner, losing patience with their kids, or spiralling into self-criticism. They want peace — and yet, no matter how many deep breaths they take, it doesn’t seem to stick. The truth is, you can’t think your way into calm.You have to feel your way there. The Myth of “Just Calm Down” We live in a culture that prizes control — over our emotions, our bodies,

Steph Moncada
2 min read
When Guilt Gets in the Way of Self-Care
If you’ve ever said:“I lost it on my kids and now I feel terrible,”or“I know I need a break, but I can’t justify taking one” —you’re not...

Steph Moncada
3 min read
Understanding Disordered Eating—And How Somatic Approaches Can Help
What is Disordered Eating? Disordered eating isn’t always about extreme behaviours—it often hides in plain sight. It can look like...

Steph Moncada
1 min read
Navigating Grief and Loss with Compassionate Support
Grief is a deeply personal and often overwhelming experience, one that can feel isolating and confusing. Whether you’re grieving the loss...

Steph Moncada
2 min read
What is Somatic Therapy and How Can It Heal Trauma?
When we experience trauma, it’s not just our minds that are affected; our bodies hold onto that pain as well. Somatic therapy is a...

Steph Moncada
3 min read
How Mindfulness Can Help You Manage Anxiety
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by racing thoughts, physical tension, or the constant pressure of daily life, you’re not alone. Anxiety...

Steph Moncada
3 min read
bottom of page



